February 25, 2004
Marriage, Gay or Otherwise
Gay marriage is a difficult topic to talk about without getting a great number of people upset. It also has a tendency to be a very divisive issue with which to discuss. I have decided (for better or worse) my current opinion of the subject. Please feel free to comment and add your thoughts to the discussion. As with so many controversial topics, the need to discuss it rationally is just as important as the topic itself.
There has been a great deal of talk lately about the proposed constitutional amendment that would ban gay marriages. The basics of the amendment work like this “marriage” would be defined as a union between a two consenting adults, one male and one female; and that such a definition would not be redefined by state or federal laws. The amendment would leave open the question of civil unions; allowing for the possibility to make all laws pertaining to marriages also apply to civil unions. Fundamentally the constitutional amendment simply enforce the Jedo-Christian definition of Marriage federally.
Personally, I have been wrestling with this issue for a while. Here are some of the problems I am trying to work out. Fundamentally I have several core values that touch on this subject. Notice that I said core values because non of the following beliefs is expressly guaranteed by the constitution.
1) I believe it is absolutely wrong for the federal government to discriminate against someone (from a legal and judicial standpoint) because of their sexual preference.
2) I do not believe that a country can judicially accept a “separate but equal” understanding of the law (i.e. have the same legal rights but just not call it “marriage”) and maintain true equality.
3) I believe marriage to be a sacramental religious institution between a man and a woman. Not a man and a man, woman and woman, man and child, woman and several men, woman and child, man and several women, man and animal, or woman and animal.
4) I do not believe that you can successfully redefine marriage without destroying the fundamental nature of marriage.
Within the boundaries of the current pro-gay-marriage/anti-gay-marriage discussion these views would seem to stand in stark contrast to one another. They surely don’t support the baning of gay unions but they don’t support the institutionalization of traditional marriage for the gay community. What is also most interesting is that I believe most Americans agree with above points. That general agreement concerning the rights of individual and the rights of our institutions is what is making this discussion so difficult.
The anti-gay rights movement has tried to paint this debate as a battle of good vs evil, moral vs immoral. This outlook, however, is based on a moral view of the world that is not shared by all people. In addition it totally ignores a problem that has to be reconciled with: that we are refusing legal and judicial rights to a group of people because of who they are. This blatant disregard for the legal equality of mankind cannot go ignored. Choosing to ignore (or worse legislate) this inequality is no better than acceptance of slavery in this country. Banning all forms of gay marriage would totally ignore beliefs 1 and 2 listed above. Do we sacrifice half of our countries values to save the other half?
The pro-gay rights movement has attempted to make this an issue of discrimination. While this may be true it totally ignores the fact that most Americans are religious and have the right not to have their beliefs, ideas, and institutions redefined for them. Remember that we are talking about an institution that existed before the government did. Marriage is historically a religious institution and the government has no right to legislate the structure of religious institutions. In addition, if we truly put away all of our biases (i.e what kinds of unions are right and wrong) what is to keep us from redefining marriage to mean a union between a man and a dog, or an adult and a child. Legalizing all forms of gay marriage would ignore beliefs 3 and 4 listed above. Again I ask you, do we sacrifice half of our countries values to save the other half?
Many Americans realize the juxtaposition and have chosen banning gay marriage but legalizing civil unions because it addresses 3 of the 4 beliefs mentioned previously, more than the two most common solutions put forth by the pro/anti gay movement. In fact dangerously close to 2/3 of the country seems to leaning this way, making the passage of a constitutional amendment a real possibility. The problem here is that I am not willing to violate one of my core beliefs to save the other three. Ignoring value #2 would mean opening this country up to the possibility of bringing back the separate-but-equal laws of the pre-civil rights era. Even more so because this would constitutionally give a basis for separate-but-equal where any previous constitutional basis in its favor was simply implied. Banning marriage but legalizing civil unions seems just as unacceptable to me as the previous solutions.
So where does that leave us? We cannot ban gay marriage, we cannot legalize it, we cannot ban some form of civil union but legalize another. The only solution that I have been able to come to is one that I have heard almost nothing about (mostly because the two “sides” of his argument don’t want the public to realize there is another option.) We totally remove marriage from federal jurisdiction. This leaves the question of civil unions open to the federal government (a topic for discussion another day) but marriage must become state/citizen/private institution. This is actually the way it is now. States recognize marriage, not the federal government. But some federal programs do give special consideration to married couples and those provisions would need to be removed or given to civil unions (if the federal government chooses to recognize civil unions.)
A couple reasons why this solution looks so good to me (besides the fact that is conforms to all of the above listed values concerning gay marriage) is that it A) is coincides with another fundamental belief of mine: the less the federal government gets involved with my life, the better off my life is; B) the Constitution should not be altered unless absolutely necessary, and should never be altered to enforce social policy decisions (see Amendment XVII as an example); and C) its in perfect harmony with current Constitutional Law and the spirit of our founding fathers (i.e. Amendment I clause 1 & 2 and Amendment X.)
I don’t know if the solution I have presented is the best solution available; but it seems to address more concerns, with better equality, than other solutions presented by the current administration and the media. Maybe instead of trying to change the constitution to enforce our current social structures, we should read our constitution and see how it suggests handling it.
February 24, 2004
My buddy Jason’s website posted this link by Paul Graham. Some of you will remember Paul from some of his technology essays. “What You Can’t Say” is about moral fashions, how to identify them and how to respond to them. Great article that can apply to all of us; regardless of our political/social/religious beliefs.
February 23, 2004
I am constantly on the lookout for good on-line Catholic resources. Yesterday (while looking up the life of a Saint on Google) I found New Advent. Its Catholic Encyclopedia is just spectacular. It had more information about Saints in it than most “Lives of Saints” books I have read. All cross-referenced, covering all manor of topics ranging from Alter to Giovanni Battista Rinuccini. It even does a good job of covering the Eastern/Greek Catholics. Easily the best Catholic resource I have ever seen on the Internet.
February 11, 2004
I Connect, Therefore I Am
Great article by Doc Searls and David Weinberger discussing what the Internet is and what it is not. Many, many people have a very very confused understanding of what exactly the Internet is and this article clears that up well. To give you an understanding of exactly how mis-understood the Internet is by lawmakers let me tell you a little story:
I work and live in Oklahoma (go Sooners). A couple of years ago big news was made when a local state representative wanted to pass a law that would ban any pornography, viewed via the Internet, within state limits. Seriously! Now regardless of your particular views on pornography, freedom of speech, or social moral obligation; this idea was simply ludicrous. All the proposed law did was show that the lawmaker had no conceptual idea of what the Internet was. If you are gonna pass the Oklahoma anti-porn law; why not simply ban all tornadoes from Oklahoma while you are at it… from now on tornadoes are not allowed within state limits. And these are the people who we count on to make sound judgments about the future of technology in America?
Fundamentally the Internet is simply a new communication standard. The Internet is not simply a communications mediem (for example a telephone, or fax machine) but a language for communication between things. In the same way that writen language allows me to communicate in many different ways (books, stop signs, love letters, posters, etc..), about an infinate amount of topics. And as such the only requirement to be part of the writen world is to know how to write. Looking at it that way it is fairly easy to see why the internet cannot be owned, everyone can use it, and anyone can add/improve it.
February 10, 2004
Two quick links. The first is an article from newtolinux.org.uk that looks like the beginnings of a “useful features for KDE that you didn’t know about” kind of faq. They only have three articles up so far but it looks like the beginning of something wonderful. The Second link was passed along by my old roommate/good friend/Counter Strike buddy Jason. A nice addition to the the new anti-drug campaign.
tlc.com has a great article titled “The Hakers Hall of Fame.” And just an FYI, Woz is just a god to Maclots, not to the majority of the Hacker community. They forgot a few very important people in my humble opinion: John Carmack, Ronald Rivest, and Jon Johansen come to mind.
February 9, 2004
Knowledge vs Wisdom
Some random quotes for the day:
“Education is a progressive discovery of our own ignorance.”
– Will Durant
“Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen.”
– Albert Einstein
“The important thing is not to stop questioning.”
– Albert Einstein
“Believe those who are seeking the truth; doubt those who find it.”
– Andr Gide
“The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts.”
– Bertrand Russel
“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then is not an act, but a habit.”
February 7, 2004
Al Gore Approved this Website
Check out some of the not-so-great moments in tech for 2003. Some some classics you might remember of the Microsoft toilet, the swastika font, and RIAA shift key debacle. Overall it was a good year for fools. I am surprised that SCO did not make the list.
February 5, 2004
And my God have Mercy on my Soul
In what is undoubtedly the most heinous crime I have committed; Heather (my wife, closest friend, and eternal slave master) points out that I failed to mention the outcome of what is possible the most important superstition held by the meteorological community. Yes I am talking about the infamous Punxsutawney Phil and the illustrious Groundhog day.
To sum it all up as well as I can guesstimate… on Fed 2, 2004 Phil got out of his hole, did or did not see something, and somehow that implies something about the weather. Now hopefully my sins will be forgiven. You are welcome Heather!
FedoraNEWS.ORG has a great intro to getting KDE 3.2 (released on Fed 2) installed on your current Fedora Core 1 machine. I am installing it as we speak on my laptop; just to try it out.
February 4, 2004
Its a Feature
Had a co-worker send me this. Pretty funny if you are a programmer.
- “I thought I fixed that.”
- “Where were you when the program blew up?”
- “Why do you want to do it that way?”
- “You can’t use that version on your system.”
- “Even though it doesn’t work, how does it feel?”
- “Did you check for a virus on your system?”
- “Somebody must have changed my code.”
- “It works, but it’s not been tested.”
- “THIS can’t be the source of THAT.”
- “I can’t test everything!”
- “It’s just some unlucky coincidence.”
- “You must have the wrong version.”
- “I haven’t touched that module in weeks!”
- “There is something funky in your data.”
- “What did you type in wrong to get it to crash?”
- “It must be a hardware problem.”
- “How is that possible?”
- “It worked yesterday.”
- “It’s never done that before.”
- “That’s weird…”
- “It’s WAD (Working As Designed)”
- “It’s a feature”
- “Who did you login as ?”
A dead end in space
The New York Times has an article discussing the role (or lack thereof) that the International Space Station will play in future space exploration. Its really sad that political decisions have caused the ISS to effectively become a dead-en as a stepping-stone for future space travel. On a side note, its a good example of why doing what is right is often NOT the same thing as doing what is politically popular.
February 3, 2004
Bar My Info
The SWIPE Toolkit is a list of web based tools to allow people to search their publicily available personal data. Things like the bar code on your credit card.
February 1, 2004
QT weekend Tutorial
The Independent Qt Tutorial is a Linux QT tutorial maintained by e8johan. The strength of the KDE environment is based in large part to the power and flexibility of the QT toolkit. If you are a MFC, gtk+, or Cocoa developer you will be totally blown away by QT. Check out the tutorial for a good intro to QT for people who already have some C++ experience.